Emmerance Victoria Odia Ndala


Hey there, I´m Victoria and and I want to help you love yourself more

I’m Emmerance Victoria Odia Ndala, you can call me Victoria – a Self-Empowerment Coach and personal development blogger who specializes in goal setting, self-love, and singleness. My philosophy of singleness is this:

Singleness is more than just being single. It’s a moment where everything starts with you, from inside out. 

When we get this part of singleness right, results follow. I’ve used this approach to help coach many people online, and it has been the root of my blog posts. 

Before running Emmerance, I spent my time learning about how to unlearn the singleness myth and apply everything I know about self-love in my own life.  

I’ve coached many people and been their accountability partner to help them through their life goals and self-love journey – All while blogging on Emmerance.com.


Self-Empowerment Coach for single woman

I spent the first 22 years of my life, believing that I would stay single for the rest of my life.

Childhood traumas are real. Although I was surrounded by loving brothers and sisters, seeing some relationships around me crumble made me believe that men (except for my father) never stay in a marriage for the rest of their life. However, I was blessed to acknowledge that it is true that marriage isn’t for everyone, but it doesn’t mean that it’s not for me.

I don’t believe in careers; I believe in callings.

Up until the age of 21, my life has been dictated by society. I did everything that any regular person would do – go to school, get a degree, start a career. Well, I struggled with knowing exactly where to pursue my career. As a Marketing graduate, it would be normal to follow up with employment in the Marketing field. However, I juggled around part-time and full-time jobs in the hope of finding the right career for me.

I then realized that a career wasn’t what I was looking for. I was going around, trying to figure out my calling. I wanted to know my purpose in this world, and it was such a craving to me that I wanted to explore it at the age of 22.

I believe that everyone has a calling. And if they would embrace that uniqueness, many people would be happy in life.

Fortunately for me, having all these employments helped me find my calling, helping others through Self-Empowerment coaching.

As many people believe that the Benjamin of the family is spoiled, I grew up very independent.

I grew up in a big family of 11 kids. Although I’m the last one, I grew up as an independent woman. I wasn’t spoiled and was corrected when needed by my parents, which I am very grateful for. The independence that I gained through the years helped me make challenging decisions in my life, making me have big goals like getting out of debt and setting healthy boundaries.

 “Who do you want to be in life?”

I was inspired to become a Life Coach by many other life coaches like Stephan Labossiere and Tony Robbins. However, whenever someone asked me who I want to be in life, I answer Emmerance Victoria Odia Ndala. I want to be me and nobody else. Answering this question by saying that you want to be like Tony Robbins is very tricky. I will never be someone else because I don’t have the same story as them. Therefore, the only option I have is becoming who I am – Emmerance Victoria Odia Ndala.

“If you work on your job, you’ll make a living. If you work on yourself, you’ll make a fortune.”

—Jim Rohn

One of my favourite quotes and the one that I live by is the one above. While we live in a society where we should do what everyone is doing, I believe that the most important thing to do in life is working on ourselves. While many spiritual books urge us to love others as we love ourselves, many don’t know how to love themselves. Hence, where I come in. I encourage people to keep working on themselves. To keep loving themselves even more because everything starts with us – you and me. We cannot help other people if we don’t know how to help ourselves.

If you’re struggling with loving yourself, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter, where I share exclusive content that will empower you to become your better Self.

Interesting Facts

Emmerance Victoria Odia Ndala

I love reading


I'm the 11th & last child of my family


I'm obsessed with One Piece


My guilty pleasure is chocolate


My favorite drink is water


I can't live without God


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1:1 Personalized Coaching To Help Increase Your Self-Esteem

With the help of the Love 4Self method, I walk you through specific steps that are curated to your needs in order to help you upgrade your self-esteem and self-love.

40 Minutes Coaching Session

Many people book 40 minutes with me when they’re going through mental breakdowns or simply need a push of empowerment. If that’s you, feel free to contact me asap, and our team will get back to you within 24 hours.

Group Coaching: Self-First Focused

They say that a community straightens us and helps us see that we are not alone. Join the group coaching Self-First Focused, where I empower women like you to put themselves first in your life. We use the Love 4Self and goal-setting methods to help you reach your goals.


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